It’s funny how time can get away from you when you have a
few unforeseen events that throw off your usual daily routines.
It’s been a rough month, a lingering cold and cough, an
abscessed tooth followed by an extraction, and of course my Mallet finger (torn
tendon in my little finger that means I can no longer straighten the finger).
It’s been years since I’d visited the after-hours clinic and I’ve had two
visits this month.
I had a lot of down time and didn’t feel up to the demands
of the book and contented myself with blogging, until this last week,
obviously, as I haven’t posted since the 20th. I had been home with
the cold and again after the dental procedure, and then had to start a course
of antibiotics, but finally I was feeling some better, though I still felt like
I’d had my stuffing knocked out.
Somehow, this past week, my social calendar got very full. Dinner
at my son’s, cancelled the previous week, a birthday dinner at my daughter’s
for my granddaughter’s 10th birthday. Then it was an out of town
lunch with an old friend. The next day I was blessed to have that same granddaughter
for the day, as she was home sick from school. Some planned events and a couple
unexpected ones.
So it was a surprise on Thursday, at my regular lunch with
my writer friend, when she commented that she wasn’t sure I’d be up for lunch
out. I was confused. This was the same friend who brought me soup and lozenges
in my cold phase this month and she well understands my health situation.
But still, I asked why, and she said I’d been silent and not
posted all week, so she thought I was sick again. It didn’t dawn on me at the
time, because in my mind I had been blogging a lot, until I looked at the
calendar and realized she was right. Not only had I not blogged since last
Saturday, I forgot all about it on Wednesday, my usual day to post.
That’s what a full social schedule gets you. I was so tired
by Thursday night I looked forward to a few days of nothing. Then today was our
early Thanksgiving dinner, turkey with the works, compliments of my daughter.
It was nice to see all the kids and my brother and his wife, and now I’m tired and
ready to for bed.
I’m hoping for a week of no plans, no social events, just
some peace and quiet. I am a loner at the best of times and I do love my
solitude, broken up occasionally with some social time. Last week it was no
solitude and too much social.
I love my friends and family dearly, we just have to stagger
our get-togethers better. So Wednesday came and went and I was totally unaware
I’d missed my designated post day, I’ll do better in the future, I promise, or
at least I’ll give it a good try.
Here's something funny. I posted this and saw I had done a posting on the 24th. It was one I had written the week before and scheduled for a later date, because...ha, ha. ha...I thought I was posting too frequently. sometimes you can't win for losing.
Here's something funny. I posted this and saw I had done a posting on the 24th. It was one I had written the week before and scheduled for a later date, because...ha, ha. ha...I thought I was posting too frequently. sometimes you can't win for losing.
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